Mandan residents Harlan and Geneva Pleinis are celebrating 60 years of marriage, a significant milestone reached after they exchanged vows on a rainy day in September 1966. The couple reflected on their enduring commitment, specifically highlighting the “in sickness and in health” portion of their wedding promises as a guiding principle throughout their decades together.
Their resolve to honor these vows has been particularly tested over the past three years. Harlan, who faced health challenges since contracting polio at six years old, later developed severe arthritis that, as he stated, left him “just about paralyzed.” Currently, Harlan resides as a nursing home resident at Good Samaritan Sunset Drive in Mandan. Despite this, Geneva, who continues to live at home, ensures they remain closely connected. She visits Harlan most days and, as Harlan affirmed, they speak on the phone every day. Geneva emphasized the unwavering nature of their commitment, stating, “We made a vow, and that’s it,” a vow they both remain determined to uphold. Harlan reiterated this sentiment, stating, “Until death do us part. I meant it.”
The love story of Harlan and Geneva began at a dance in Lemmon, South Dakota. Harlan recalled his initial impression of Geneva as she crossed the dance floor, noting her “orange hair.” He admitted it was not love at first sight but found it “interesting.” What did capture his attention, Harlan explained, was “the way she walked across the floor,” and he discovered they danced together “really easy.”
Over their six decades of marriage, the Pleinis family has grown considerably. Photographs serve as cherished reminders of their journey, featuring their children, grandchildren, and a large contingent of great-grandchildren. Geneva proudly stated that they currently have “13 living great-grandkids.”
Reflecting on their long and happy marriage, Harlan and Geneva offered advice for other couples. Harlan suggested the importance of praying together and exercising caution in communication, advising not to say “everything that pops into your head.” Geneva encouraged couples to travel together, particularly when they are young. The couple shared one of their biggest regrets was postponing a trip to the Peace Gardens. They had believed it was close enough to visit eventually and prioritized traveling to more distant locations instead. Now, they acknowledge that the opportunity to make that trip has likely passed. Their story provides a local example of sustained commitment and companionship for residents of Mandan and Burleigh and Morton counties.